Sun Apr 07- The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Social 10:45am – 11:00am.

This week our featured speaker, Clive Hannah, will give a talk inspired by Gary Chapman’s book: The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts.  Clive has been addicted to personal development for the last eight years. Gary Chapman’s book is one of the frameworks that he has woven into his life.  A quote from the book: “Everyone experiences love differently, and it’s easy to miss the mark when it comes to showing that you care”. Clive will share his personal experiences with the love languages and how he discovered how to communicate and express himself deeply.

Clive Hannah

Clive is a Toronto Oasis volunteer, helping us manage our social media.  He has a passion for community building. In addition to his volunteer work with Oasis, Clive is also an organizer for Toronto Adults with ADHD Support Group and volunteers his time with a men’s group called MasterHeart.  Professionally, Clive is an independent software consultant in IT Enterprise Architecture.  All of Clive’s work, professional and volunteer, is driven by wanting to create his life rather than letting life happen to him.

Clive’s talk is an example of one of our own sharing their learning and growth with our community.  If you have a topic you have learned about and could give a talk on, contact Tania at 416oasis@gmail.com.

Pickle Juice Trio

Our featured musical performers this week will be the Pickle Juice Trio.  The Pickle Juice Trio is an exploration of rhythms, structures and melodies derived from the blues, gospel and swing music of the mid twentieth century by three musicians who crossed paths in the improvised music scene in Toronto.  All three are eclectic musicians who’s playing and influences cross many stylistic boundaries. Arnd Jurgensen has been a prominent contributor to TO’s improvised music scene but here channels influences ranging from Blind Blake to Blood Ulmer with his finger style guitar playing and baritone vocals. Percussionist Bob Vespaziani, also a staple on the improvised music scene, demonstrates his years of experience backing numerous blues and swing performers around town. Last but not least, violinist Cassie Norton with influences from folk, jazz and classical music adds an unusual and intriguing colour to this not so conventional blues trio.  Cassie Norton is also the music director of Toronto Oasis.

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzgbkb/

Sun Mar 31 – The Cosmic Origin of Chemical Elements

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Social 10:45am – 11:00am.

We know the Periodic Table of elements from secondary school. There are more than 120 elements and more than 500 isotopes discovered to date. But how did this variety of chemical elements originally come to existence? Where does all the material surrounding us on Earth and constituting our bodies come from?

Alex Beckmann

This Sunday, our featured speaker, Alex Beckmann, will answer these intriguing questions.  Alex studied physics in Kharkiv, Ukraine.  He did his Ph.D. in theoretical physics in String and Field Theory.  He taught physics at the high school and university levels in Ukraine and Germany.  Alex currently lives and works in Toronto.  His work in Toronto is in IT and involves cloud-based solutions for markets, investment banking, and research.  However, Alex still enjoys teaching physics!

Our featured musical act will be Amateur.   Amateur is the solo project of self-teaching composer and accordionist Tristan Murphy. The title “Amateur” is both a disclaimer and a mission statement: a confession that he does not have formal training or a depth of cultural lore, nor any professional comprehension of genre or trend; but also a reminder that it does not matter, and that music can be made in a way that is explorative, for its own enjoyment, without striving toward or against existing musical standards.  A link to Amateur: https://www.facebook.com/anamateur/

For this week’s Community Moment we will have Clive Hannah.

The Community Moment is a chance for one of our own to share their journey, thoughts about life, or something personal about themselves.  It could be light and silly or it could be emotionally heavy.  Either way, you’ll learn more about a valued person in our community.  Interested in presenting your own Community Moment?  Contact Tania at 416oasis@gmail.com.

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzfbpc/

Sun Mar 24 – Choosing Relationship Structures that Work for You

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

Most of us grow up with a limited idea of relationship structures and choices. Monogamy has been the one and only option for a large majority of people, but there’s so much more available to us. This week, we’ll chat about Consensual Non-Monogamy and the variety of structures available to us. We’ll take a look at how to access them, how to do so ethically and honestly, and how to communicate our desires effectively to potential partners.

Eva Dusome

Our featured speaker on this topic will be Eva Dusome of Polyamory Toronto.  Eva Dusomeis an equity advocate and actively supports concepts surrounding restorative justice and mediation in complex situations. Her education platform, both professionally and community based, focuses on non-monogamy, kink, gender, sexual freedom of expression, essential mental health support, access to basic self-care routines, (dis)ability and accommodation supports, all with a trauma-informed lens. She actively challenges the current dominant paradigm of westernized society by offering perspectives that are rare and unorthodox.  Eva works with individuals and groups to help them uncover and dive deeper into their desires, their boundaries and to push their own limitations when ready and able.

Eva is a mixed race two-spirited queer, genderfluid femme. She experiences her relationships as a solo-relationship anarchist. She lives on the traditional territory of the Anishinaabe known as the Mississaugas of the Credit First Nation.  Pronouns: Fluid // They / Them / She / Her / 

George Crotty

Our featured musician will be George Crotty, a crossover cellist from Toronto, Canada. He traces his family lineage to County Clare, Ireland, and a family of Jewish musicians descended from Felix Mendelssohn. A recent graduate of the Berklee College of Music, Crotty aspires to forge a new linguistic path for the cello by integrating elements from Eastern, Celtic, and Jazz traditions. His website is www.georgecrotty.com.

For this week’s Community Moment we will have Margrit Eichler.

The Community Moment is a chance for one of our own to share their journey, thoughts about life, or something personal about themselves.  It could be light and silly or it could be emotionally heavy.  Either way, you’ll learn more about a valued person in our community.  Interested in presenting your own Community Moment?  Contact Tania at 416oasis@gmail.com.

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzfbgc/

NOTE: This week we will be heading to our Toronto Oasis Book Club for 1:30pm right after our gathering. Register on meetup at: https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/259126149/

Sun Mar 17 – The Canadian Criminal Justice System and the “Me Too” Movement

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

This Sunday our featured speaker, Catherine Francis, will take a retrospective look at the treatment of sexual assault cases in Canada’s criminal justice system, the Jian Ghomeshi trial and the rise and influence of the “me too” movement.

Catherine Francis

Catherine Francis holds Bachelor of Arts (1981) and Bachelor of Law (1985) degrees from the University of Toronto and was called to the Ontario Bar in 1987.  Catherine is a long-time partner at Minden Gross LLP, a mid-sized downtown Toronto law firm, practicing principally in the areas of commercial and insolvency litigation.  Catherine was raised in a secular household with a strong belief in equality rights and is keenly interested in legal issues affecting the interests of non-believers and the separation of Church and State.  Her website is: https://www.mindengross.com/our-people/details/catherine-francis 

Sam Tudor

Our musical guest this Sunday will be Sam Tudor.  Sam’s 2014 album ‘The Modern New Year’ got tucked into the airwaves of campus radio stations across the country, quietly earning him the beginnings of a cult following for his lo-fi pop music. Most recently, Sam released the album Quotidian Dream, a quiet collection of idiosyncratic folk songs which became a critical hit in Western Canada and beyond. Sam’s songs are soft spoken and clear, poignant and thoughtful.  His webpage is https://samtudor.bandcamp.com.

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzfbwb/

Sun Mar 10 – Being Mindful of Waste

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

Ryan Zhang

Canadians are among the top producers of waste in the world, generating about 720 kg per capita of waste per year, which is 7% higher than that of the U.S.  With the Greater Toronto Area’s population set to grow to 9.7 million people by 2041 and Toronto’s current landfill predicted to close by 2040, there is a need for all of us to reduce the amount of waste sent to the landfill.  This week our guest speaker, Ryan Zhang, will talk about the importance of proper waste management, give an overview of what the City of Toronto’s waste management policy and rules are like, and will also provide a demonstration of how to properly sort waste.

Ryan Zhang is currently a second-year student of the Environmental Technology Program at Georgian College.  He aspires to become a professional in the environmental field when he graduates and enjoys keeping fish, learning about nature, listening to history podcasts, and obsessively reading Wikipedia articles for fun.  

Smythe and Taylor

Our musical guests will be Smythe and Taylor (http://www.facebook.com/ smytheandtaylormusic). Smythe and Taylor started their musical journey playing at open mic nights in Houston, Texas.  After they both retired from the oil and gas business, they began playing professionally, and have since won several national awards for both performance and original song-writing.  Over the last 20 years, they’ve performed for audiences across the USA, Poland, England, France, and the Netherlands.   They are currently based in the tiny town of Silver Cliff, Colorado where they volunteer for their local community radio station, and continue to produce symbiotic harmonies, humorous lyrics, and a ‘3-D’ brand of guitar playing. 

For this week’s Community Moment we will have Katelyn Strauss.

The Community Moment is a chance for one of our own to share their journey, thoughts about life, or something personal about themselves.  It could be light and silly or it could be emotionally heavy.  Either way, you’ll learn more about a valued person in our community.  Interested in presenting your own Community Moment?  Contact Tania at 416oasis@gmail.com.

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzfbnb/

Sun Mar 03 – Authenticity and Unity

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

Phil Cheney

Our featured speaker this Sunday will be Phil Cheney.  Phil ‘Philosofree’ Cheney is awed by the Cosmos, and excited about human potential. He is a renaissance man who appreciates life, having worked in over 55 countries, including as a university lecturer in his native Australia, Trade leader in Thailand, Government budget consultant in Papua New Guinea, software distributor in Zimbabwe, marketer in Germany, Building Construction in China, farm exporting in Japan and author in his current home in Toronto.

Philosofree is a mystic who is curious about integrating science and the metaphysical. He has published 8 books, 5 CDs of original music and won awards for software design and clinical practice in medicine.  His education background includes degrees in Economics, Business Administration and Information Technology.  Phil prioritizes his wife, daughters and grandchildren, and loves to sing and dance with them.

Phil’s talk at Toronto Oasis will be a personal recounting of his own journey both with pride and humility.  He will talk about how authenticity is acting consistently with who we are, but who we are is balancing between YIN and YANG.  Phil will talk about how our spiritual journey requires an understanding of energy and its role in our life.  He will also touch upon the mystery of mind, some questions and ideas, all pointing towards holistic unity.  This should make for an interesting Q&A session with our community comprising of many atheists, naturalists and skeptics!  We look forward to a respectful dialogue and discussion that promotes mutual understanding between skeptics and the more spiritually inclined.

Our featured musicians will be Steven Karst and Cassie Norton.  They will be leading us in secular sing-alongs!  Steven comes from a musical family and was classically trained in piano and bass trombone. He learned guitar from his dad and picked up bass guitar at age 35.  His tastes and musical experience cover a wide spectrum of genres from classical and opera to heavy metal and classic rock.  His varied tastes have given him the opportunity to tour internationally and play in a variety of venues from churches to dive bars.

Steven Karst

Having led congregational singing in a religious space, Steven began to wonder how it would work in a secular environment. With the support of Cassie Norton and the Oasis leadership team and those who made song requests, Steven has put together a few enjoyable songs that are easy to sing and hopefully create a memorable experience.

Cassie Norton

Steven will be joined by Cassie Norton, the music director of Toronto Oasis and a Toronto-based singer-songwriter. She is a classically trained violinist/folk leaning tunesmith with a punk rock heart. She has recorded two full length albums, Little Strength (2009) and Quiet Wilderness (2010).  She teaches a variety of private and ensemble classes at Regent Park School of Music, and at her private studio. Check out her website: www.cassienorton.com

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzfbfb/

Sun Feb 24 – Freedom of Expression and “Islamophobia”

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

Sandy Donaldson

This Sunday we will have a discussion on the drawing of legal, moral, and social lines with respect to speech and criticism of religion in a free and democratic society.  Our featured speaker on this topic will be Sandy Donaldson.  Sandy is a labour lawyer in Toronto, specializing in human rights for a large provincial union. He is a co-founder of the Atheist Community of Toronto meetup group and co-hosted the “Salmon of Doubt” atheist podcast.

Emilyn Stam and John Williams

Our featured musicians will be Emilyn Stam and John Williams.  Emilyn and John merge the melodic voices of violin and clarinet, creating a modern sound steeped in tradition. Not limited to original music, their repertoire often has a strong connection to traditional dance, and explores a wide palette of sound through various combinations of violin, clarinet, accordion, harmonica and piano. They first started playing music together as members of the Lemon Bucket Orkestra. Currently John also leads the 6-piece old-time jazz band The Boxcar Boys and Emilyn tours with Italian diatonic accordion virtuoso Filippo Gambetta. Their website is  https://emilynandjohn.com/

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzdbgc/

Sun Feb 17 – Toronto Oasis Potluck Lunch

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

This long-weekend Sunday, join us for a potluck lunch!  Come share your food, stories, experiences and insights!

When you RSVP on Meetup, please indicate, in the comments section, what you intend to bring: main dish, salad, dessert, or drinks.  Thank you!

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzdbwb/

Sun Feb 10 – Factory Farming

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

Factory farming has wide-ranging impacts: on health/nutrition, animal welfare, social justice, environment/sustainability, women’s rights/gender issues, economics, and world politics. Our featured speaker Sangeeta Kumar will try to touch upon all these issues and help to stir up a dynamic and educational conversation about the topic we all love – food!

Sangeeta Kumar

Sangeeta Kumar has been an advocate for social justice for over 30 years. In high school she began teaching students about the impact of their choices on the planet. Influenced by the works of Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr., her passion for social justice and education led to a degree in Environmental Leadership and a M.Ed. in Humane Education. 

She has spoken to schools all over North America educating students about the environmental impact of our food choices, the philosophy behind animal welfare and how to make choices which are kinder to animals. She has been invited to speak in schools across North America such as Stanford and Princeton University. Nothing excites her more than the idea of inspiring people to leave this world a more compassionate place.  Her website is http://inspireducation.ca 

Kathryn Merriam

Our featured musician this Sunday will be Kathryn Merriam.   Described by audiences as ‘other-worldly’ and ‘transcendent’, Kathryn Merriam’s songs interweave melismatic melodies with soaring lyricism, evoking flavours of Joni Mitchell, Vashti Bunyan and Kate Bush. Accompanying herself on the harp, Kathryn explores the intersections between folk song tradition and mystical music – making subtle observations of the natural world, and reminding listeners to widen their lens and see life with curious, awe-filled eyes. 

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at: https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzdbnb/

Sun Feb 03 – Athletes’ Rights, Athletes’ Wrongs: Social Justice and the Court of Arbitration for Sport

Our event starts at 11 am on the 2nd floor of the Koffler House (569 Spadina Avenue).  Come early for coffee and conversation at 10:30 am.

Did you know that competitive athletes’ contracts prohibit them from accessing their own countries’ courts? Because the International Olympic Committee (IOC) is the self-proclaimed ‘supreme authority for world sport’, athletes must bring any dispute over gender, doping, eligibility, contracts or other sport-related issues to an arbitration body that it established in 1983, the Court of Arbitration for Sport (CAS).  CAS has close ties with the IOC and the World Anti-Doping Agency (WADA), and there are serious conflict-of-interest and other ethical concerns arising from these linkages.  In short, CAS decisions often penalize innocent athletes while guilty ones go free, and what happens at the highest levels of sport has impacts throughout the system.  Thanks to the mainstream media, sport celebrities are admired and emulated by young and old, whether or not they deserve the status of moral exemplar (or in mediaspeak, role model).

Helen Lenskyj

Speaking on this topic, our featured speaker this Sunday will be Helen Jefferson Lenskyj, Professor Emerita, University of Toronto and author of the book Gender, Athletes’ Rights, and the Court of Arbitration for Sport.  Helen Jefferson Lenskyj grew up in Australia and has lived in Toronto since 1966. She completed her Ph.D. at the University of Toronto in 1983, and was a professor from 1986 until retiring in 2007.   As well as writing books, she enjoys swimming and kayaking.  Her website is  www.helenlenskyj.ca

You can RSVP for this on our Meetup page at: https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/jdmkqqyzdbfb/