Sun Oct 03 – [Online] Dealing with Death and Dying Without Religion

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

How do non-religious people grapple with the idea and reality of death and dying? In the face of the death of people in our lives, and our own looming death, how do we stave off nihilistic thinking: if we are all going to be snuffed out of existence, why does anything matter?

Religion has a clear answer to this question, namely, that we are not snuffed out of existence, that there is an afterlife. Many religions actually go further and claim that not only is there an afterlife, but that we will be judged in the afterlife by God for how we spend our time in this life. So, everything matters – not only do we have to survive until the natural end of our lives, we must do good, be good while we are alive.

For those of us who don’t believe in an afterlife and any religion, what reason do we have to care about anything? What narratives and reasons do secular people have to explain to themselves why anything matters?

Our featured speaker on this topic will be Laval Martin. Laval is a corporate trainer on topics such as resilience, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, and mindfulness (https://www.lavalmartinconsulting.com/). Holding a Master of Social Work degree, he also provides psychotherapy and relationship therapy (http://www.wisemindtoronto.com/).

Additionally, Laval has been hosting a monthly Beer and Philosophy Night since May, 2014. Meetup link to Laval’s Beer & Philosophy group: https://www.meetup.com/Beer-and-Philosophy-Night/

Laval has practiced various martial arts and self-defense systems since 2001, with a focus on avoiding and de-escalating conflict. He is a full-instructor of Senshido and also holds an instructor certification with Safe International.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksyccnbfb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

This meeting has been recorded: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1D_EQ-hDBCUkSVFj91uAZKGiO4iwKLWgp/view?usp=sharing

Sun Sep 26 – [Online] Me Too Is a Movement, Not a Moment

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

We will watch and then discuss a TED talk by Tarana Burke, an activist from The Bronx, New York, who started the Me Too movement in 2006. Helen Lenskyj, a Toronto Oasis member, will introduce the topic and help moderate the discussion. Helen is Professor Emerita, University of Toronto, where she taught sociology.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksyccmbjc/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Sun Sep 19 – [Online] Let’s Talk About Dying

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

For our featured presentation this Sunday, Tim Mt. Pleasant, a Master of Philosophy Student focusing on Bioethics at McGill University, will facilitate a Death Café. Tim is currently approved for Fall Convocation, graduating from Ryerson University’s Honours BA- Philosophy degree program. Tim has worked for numerous years in Long-Term Care and Community Mental Health/Addictions. He has experienced, most significantly, the death of both grandmothers, which led Tim to previous participation in two Death Cafés.

Death Cafés are safe spaces to talk about death, dying and how that is conceived of by individuals who participate. Tim will introduce a 12-minute Ted Talk by Dr. Peter Saul of Australia, after which participants will be put in break-out rooms to discuss the narrative and preconceived notions of what the experience (or non-experience) of death entails, how we have experienced it with loved ones and how we might imagine our own encounter with it. The extended discussion will allow participants to come together to share, briefly, what has been discussed and what they take away from hearing the brief stories of others. Resources will be provided at the end for future death café’s that are available in various regions and resources for exploring information.

Tim Mt. Pleasant is a First Nations member of the LGBTQ2S+ and Disabled community from Six Nations of the Grand River First Nation; he has recently completed his Bachelor’s degree in Philosophy and is working on completing his Master of Philosophy degree with a concentration in Bioethics. His experience comes from work in the Long-Term Care (10 years), Mental Health/Addictions sectors (8 years) and Ontario Public Service. In addition, Tim completed a placement in the Bioethics program at Princess Margaret Cancer Centre / University Health Network in Toronto, ON.

Tim is currently completing the MA: Philosophy (Bioethics) – Thesis program at McGill University, with a broad range of research interests.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksyccmbzb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Sun Sep 12 – [Online] Resilience: Where Does It Come From and How Do I Get Some?

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

This Sunday our featured speaker will be Kristen Gane. She will discuss the nuanced topic of resilience by exploring the protective elements and risk factors that create or impair our ability to meet life’s challenges and carry on. What fosters resilience during childhood and what threatens it? As adults can we address gaps in our resilience toolkit and continue to grow and develop strengths as we navigate through life? Join us this Sunday for some ideas and simple strategies.

Kristen is a Registered Psychotherapist (with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario), a professional member of the Canadian Art Therapy Association and the Ontario Society of Registered Psychotherapists. She is also a freelance writer and an artist.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksyccmbqb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Sun Sep 05 – [Online] A Journey to Authentic Living

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

We will watch and then discuss a TEDxJerusalem talk by Yiscah Smith, a Jewish transgender woman, who had been ultra-orthodox for many years, before starting to work towards transitioning at age 50. Dan Cooperstock, a Toronto Oasis organizer, will be introducing the topic and leading the discussion.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksyccmbhb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Dan has provided his powerpoint presentation here: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1PVu-28ptD3DGI0fauySNjCSOk_8SwmKy/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=109653132821260096038&rtpof=true&sd=true

Sun Aug 29 – [Online] Be Accepting and Be Accepted

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

This August, in place of our featured presentations, we will have discussions on our five core values, focusing on one each Sunday. At the moment there are 13 Oasis communities in North America. All of them, including our own community, Toronto Oasis, are founded on these five core values:

People are more important than beliefs.
Reality is known through reason.
Meaning comes from making a difference.
Human hands solve human problems.
Be accepting and be accepted.

What do these values mean to each of us? How similar or different are our interpretations of what they mean? Are there limitations and exceptions to the “rules” implicit in each of these values? Should the wording of any of these values be modified to better communicate the underlying core value? Let’s discuss!!

This Sunday we’ll focus on the core value: Be accepting and be accepted. Toronto Oasis volunteer, Paul Kaplan, will introduce the topic and moderate the discussion.

Our guest musician will be Fairy J. Fairy J is a multi-disciplinary artist and performer, choreographer, musician, intuitive healer, mentor and mother. She believes that art is a portal to the divine and in that she is in a constant investigation around how her work can create more space for healing.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksycclbmc/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Sun Aug 22 – [Online] Human Hands Solve Human Problems

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

This August, in place of our featured presentations, we will have discussions on our five core values, focusing on one each Sunday. At the moment there are 13 Oasis communities in North America. All of them, including our own community, Toronto Oasis, are founded on these five core values:

People are more important than beliefs.
Reality is known through reason.
Meaning comes from making a difference.
Human hands solve human problems.
Be accepting and be accepted.

What do these values mean to each of us? How similar or different are our interpretations of what they mean? Are there limitations and exceptions to the “rules” implicit in each of these values? Should the wording of any of these values be modified to better communicate the underlying core value? Let’s discuss!!

This Sunday we’ll focus on the core value: Human hands solve human problems. Toronto Oasis member, Helen Lenskyj, will introduce the topic and set us up for the discussion.

Our guest musician will be Reenie Perkovic. Reenie is a queer folk-pop artist. With a soulful edge, she composes heartfelt songs that are both fun and introspective. Infusing her classical background with jazz harmony, folk rhythms, and pop sensibilities, Reenie and her guitar weave together stories of the human condition, connection, and social justice.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksycclbdc/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Sun Aug 15 – [Online] Meaning Comes From Making a Difference

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

This August, in place of our featured presentations, we will have discussions on our five core values, focussing on one each Sunday. At the moment there are 13 Oasis communities in North America. All of them, including our own community, Toronto Oasis, are founded on these five core values:

People are more important than beliefs.
Reality is known through reason.
Meaning comes from making a difference.
Human hands solve human problems.
Be accepting and be accepted.

What do these values mean to each of us? How similar or different are our interpretations of what they mean? Are there limitations and exceptions to the “rules” implicit in each of these values? Should the wording of any of these values be modified to better communicate the underlying core value? Let’s discuss!!

This Sunday we’ll focus on the core value: Meaning comes from making a difference. Toronto Oasis volunteer, Kristen Gane, will introduce the topic and moderate the discussion.

Our featured musician will be Cassie Norton, a Toronto-based singer-songwriter, violinist and climate activist. She has recorded two full length albums as a solo artist, Little Strength (2009) and Quiet Wilderness (2010). Cassie and her band released their first EP: Lullaby for the End of Time in February 2019. When she isn’t busy making her own music, Cassie shares her love of music with others through teaching. She teaches a variety of private and ensemble classes at Regent Park School of Music, and through her private studio. Cassie is also the music director of Toronto Oasis. Her website is: https://www.cassienorton.com/

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksycclbtb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

Sun Aug 08 – [Online] Reality Is Known Through Reason

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

This August, in place of our featured presentations, we will have discussions on our five core values, focussing on one each Sunday. At the moment there are 13 Oasis communities in North America. All of them, including our own community, Toronto Oasis, are founded on these five core values:

People are more important than beliefs.
Reality is known through reason.
Meaning comes from making a difference.
Human hands solve human problems.
Be accepting and be accepted.

What do these values mean to each of us? How similar or different are our interpretations of what they mean? Are there limitations and exceptions to the “rules” implicit in each of these values? Should the wording of any of these values be modified to better communicate the underlying core value? Let’s discuss!!

This Sunday we’ll focus on the core value: Reality is known through reason. Toronto Oasis volunteer, Clive Hannah, will introduce the topic and moderate the discussion.

Also, this Sunday, we will be featuring some live music from Moonfruits. Their website is: https://moonfruits.ca/

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksycclblb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!

The slides are available here: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/12sR53092TNq2naYBEDo2ZatvEBwNb5tZamG2Vz5rrHE/edit?usp=sharing

Sun Aug 01 – [Online] People Are More Important Than Beliefs

This will be an online Zoom meeting. Please RSVP on our Meetup for this event to get access to the Zoom link. See our online meeting instructions at: https://torontooasis.org/online-meeting-instructions

Our program will run from 11 am to 12:30 pm and you can join in to the meeting starting at 10:45 am for our open social. Followed by an extended discussion for a half hour. Volunteers please join by 10:30 am.

This August, in place of our featured presentations, we will have discussions on our five core values, focussing on one each Sunday. At the moment there are 13 Oasis communities in North America. All of them, including our own community, Toronto Oasis, are founded on these five core values:

People are more important than beliefs.
Reality is known through reason.
Meaning comes from making a difference.
Human hands solve human problems.
Be accepting and be accepted.

What do these values mean to each of us? How similar or different are our interpretations of what they mean? Are there limitations and exceptions to the “rules” implicit in each of these values? Should the wording of any of these values be modified to better communicate the underlying core value? Let’s discuss!!

This Sunday we’ll focus on the core value: People are more important than beliefs. Toronto Oasis organizer, Tania Akon, will introduce the topic and moderate the discussion.

Also, this Sunday, we will be having live music! Our guest musician will be Wesley Blondin-Doan, whose stage name is Kid Grit. Kid Grit’s folk songs are quiet and pensive reflections of a life lived. From the depths of isolation possible in a digital age, to the heights of exaltation, living and growing up in nature. His music travels through the processes of life and how we heal, through gentle whisperings, swelling warm harmonies, and sometimes painful personal admissions – attempting to find peace and truth in the smallest of things.

Please RSVP on meetup:
https://www.meetup.com/Toronto-Oasis/events/bhgwksycclbcb/

Looking forward to seeing familiar faces and perhaps some new ones!